Talking To And Supporting Your Child
In the past, parents often received conflicting advice about whether to tell a child about donor conception. Openness began to be more accepted in the late 1980’s, but there were few guides for parents on how to talk to their child about donor conception. Families created with the help of a donor face unique issues. As parents, you have probably had to go through a long, difficult process both physically and emotionally to become a family. You may find it hard to talk about these issues as they are quite sensitive and private. Talking may also trigger painful feelings you thought you had dealt with years ago.
It is important to work through these feelings as much as you are able to especially for your son or daughters’ sake. The more comfortable you are about these issues; the more comfortable they are likely to be. This often takes practice and usually becomes easier the more you do it. You may benefit from seeking some counselling for yourself if you are finding this difficult. Please contact us for advice and support.
Fortunately, there are now many resources available to assist you in talking to your son or daughter. Click here for a comprehensive range of resources including podcasts, articles and books for children.
If you would like to discuss your situation you can contact the Victorian Assisted Reproductive Treatment Authority for free confidential advice, on 03 8601 5250
